Manifestation blog
I have over ten years’ of writing for my blog.
For convenience and ease, I am only sharing the past year of my blog. Enjoy!
From Flop to Success – The day no one signed up
It was fascinating. I had the Receiving Retreat on Saturday. And it wasn’t anything like I’d imagined it would be when I initially planned it.
You see, no one signed up. Even though the energy said to do it. Even though the astrologer said to do it. Even though.... You get the picture. Apparently, I forgot to factor in the end of year school schedules.
I teach to not let other’s reality become your reality by being high vibe…
There is No Fail, Only Try
Failure comes in two flavors – low vibe and high vibe. It doesn’t matter if you personally are high vibe or low vibe, as both have failure. However, the difference is your perspective of what you are experiencing.
When you are low vibe and feel chaotic, apathetic, depressed, guilty, judged, shamed, and blamed, you probably look at failure as something bad. One negative after another. You may even make up a rule that you are a failure and never get it right. Afterall, it didn’t work all of the times you did try. So that means you aren’t perfect and you’ll always be wrong, so you might as well give up. You stop trying. Failure becomes something to avoid.
Sugar Season
Do you have a goal of how you really want to feel this holiday season?
It’s sugar season…the time of the year when sugar is all around us and people eat more than they normally would. Sugar season is Halloween to New Year’s. Think about trick-or-treating, baking, holiday parties, the beginning of winter (hot chocolate), extra treats at work, family get-togethers, and more.
You may ask, “What’s the big deal?” Many people can handle eating sugar in small amounts. But the small amounts aren’t what they used to be. Historically, humans didn’t eat sugar until about 2,000 years ago when they discovered sugar cane. Since then humans have been eating more and more sugar…
Forgiveness is a Choice
Don't forgive others. Don't forgive yourself. Hold onto all those horrible feelings as you relive them over and over in your head. Talk about what is going wrong. Blame others for everything. And continue to feel worse and worse.
Or forgive yourself and everyone and everything around you and start feeling great.
It's your choice.
You are the only one experiencing your life. What do you choose to feel? Do you want to hold onto the anger, hurt, and bitterness? Or do you want to hold onto the yummy feelings of love, kindness, and joy? What experiences do you choose to have?
Claim Your Power: Personal Responsibility
Are you ready to step into your power?
What will it take?
Claim your personal responsibility. Once you own your responsibility in whatever is happening or has happened, you let go of blaming others. This gives you the power to make choices that benefit you without attachment or resistance to the past…
Clean Out the Sh*t in Your Internal Basement with High Vibe
What do you do when life works out differently than you hoped?
Does it feel like once something goes wrong, everything goes wrong?
Do you get caught up in complaining, or do you step back and look for the good?
What you feel is what you attract. The Universe gives you experiences that match your feelings because it thinks that’s what you want.
There is No Fail, Only Try
Failure comes in two flavors – low vibe and high vibe. It doesn’t matter if you personally are high vibe or low vibe, as both have failure. However, the difference is your perspective of what you are experiencing.
When you are low vibe and feel chaotic, apathetic, depressed, guilty, judged, shamed, and blamed, you probably look at failure as something bad. One negative after another. You may even make up a rule that you are a failure and never get it right. Afterall, it didn’t work all of the times you did try. So that means you aren’t perfect and you’ll always be wrong, so you might as well give up. You stop trying. Failure becomes something to avoid.
Do You Want to Be Right or Be Happy?
The saying “You can be right, or you can be happy” takes on new meaning when you look through the lens of allowing yourself to be open to something even better. A recent client conveyed that she’d gotten a new job since the last time we spoke. It was her dream job. She went on to say that while the work was similar to her previous job, the new environment was her dream company culture.
14 Guidelines for a Life that Works for You
Here is a brief “cheat sheet” to help you create a life that works for you. Most blogs are story based touching on one of these guidelines.
Wishing vs. Choosing
We grew up with the rhyme of wishing upon a star and the stories of three magic wishes. So many people think that wishes are the way to our dreams fulfilled. But what if that’s not exactly it?
Manifesting from Ideals
I got an interesting article in the mail today that got me thinking. The article was about why we celebrate July 4th as Independence Day. After all, that wasn’t the day we won the Revolutionary War. It was, however, the day that a group of men set forth the ideals of what was possible.
Changing Perspectives
Changing perspectives is an art and something you can learn. Being able to look at something from many different angles gives you a leg up because it actually lowers stress levels. In the end, any problem, looked at from a new perspective or angle very often stops being a problem (or a solution becomes obvious). Learning to shift perspectives can take a bit of practice.
Open to New Possibilities
It’s all possible, until we get stuck in the problem. This is wrong. The other person did.... I can’t believe that.... Everyone is....
When we are wrapped up in what is wrong, we spiral down into more of the problem, and this stops the manifesting cold in its tracks. Have you ever noticed that once these spirals start, it is very difficult to stop it? Complaining attracts complaining. And as you know, what you focus on is what you get. So, if you focus on the problem, you will get more problems to focus on.
Dare to Be Different
The saying “You can be right, or you can be happy” takes on new meaning when you look through the lens of allowing yourself to be open to something even better. A recent client conveyed that she’d gotten a new job since the last time we spoke. It was her dream job. She went on to say that while the work was similar to her previous job, the new environment was her dream company culture.
Manifestation: It’s All About the Feeling!
How would you like to peek into the future? It’s possible. Just look at what you are feeling now. If you don’t change anything, those feelings will play out over and over as you create your future. It’s not really about the exact things that you do, as it’s more about the feelings you have while you are doing those things.
Act As If…
We do things for the feelings they will give us. I’m sure that you or someone you know has walked into a closet full of clothes and whined that there was nothing to wear. I know that I’ve done this. But is that true? No. You (or the person) were looking for a specific feeling and was hoping that the clothing would provide it. If you knew what the feeling was before even walking into the closet, then you would find something to wear much faster.
Illuminating Your Values
Your values are valuable. Values are those ideals that ourselves to be in order to live our lives. Who and what do you choose to be at the core of your being?