The first step to changing the past is to stop complaining about it. In fact, stop complaining, judging, moaning, and groaning all together. What you focus on is what you get. So, if you are focused on “let me tell you all the bad things that have been going on” the Universe is hearing that you want more bad things – and will give it to you.

Instead look for the gold. Look for what is working in your life. Look for what is right about what you formerly complained about.