Judith Joy

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From Worst to Best

Stabbed in the back straight through the heart.  Betrayed.  Lied to. This is how a client recently felt.  It was a situation (which will go unnamed) that could have been one of the worst things that ever happened to him.  And now, it may be the best.

He was finally backed against a wall and the situation was “bad enough” that he was truly willing to do the inner consciousness clearing.  In the past, he’d dabbled in it. He’d clear his thoughts and feelings if something popped up, and he had minor success. Now he was committed and did it every day.

And the result is that he is okay with however it turns out.  And as it happens, the situation is turning around in his favor after only a week and is better than he imagined.  In addition, new opportunities for two work projects, which seemed to be stalled, fell into his lap with ease.  One even happened on the golf course.

High vibe wins.  People think that fighting, cheating, and conniving is the way to win.  In truth, those are low vibe actions that cause chaos. When you go high vibe, there is clarity, ease, and power.  The high vibe will lead to the “win.”

So, what is inner consciousness clearing?

In short, consciousness is the collection of thoughts, feelings, and sensations that one is aware of.  And in truth, it’s even the ones that we are not aware of that are running the programs that have been picked up along the way.

For example, the phrase “money will make me happy” is something that many people believe.  This is a belief that isn’t useful. There are plenty of people who have money and aren’t happy.  In truth, money is just paper.  What it represents is the freedom to make choices. 

Happiness is something entirely different.  It’s a feeling of expansive joy. 

If you are looking to be happy, money may be one way that you can get there.  It is a tool that comes and goes.  But the real and lasting happiness happens when you focus on the feeling and are able to be happy no matter what is happening in your life.

And this is where the clearing comes in.  Our thoughts (including memories) have emotions attached to them.  These emotions are running the show.  Once you clear away the emotions, feelings, or sensations surrounding the thought, then you get new awarenesses, things become clearer, and you can take new actions.

The way the Universe works is that whatever you are feeling dictates what you are attracting.

If you are feeling stressed, the Universe will bring you opportunities to feel more stressed.  Afterall, that is what your heart is asking for by focusing on the stress. 

However, if you change your feelings, you can change your reality. This is your chance to go high vibe and feel great no matter what.  Your circumstances can change because your heart is asking for something that matches the high vibe feeling.

In short, your feelings lighten up and whatever was formerly bothering you doesn’t bother you...and you get to have experiences that match those lighter feelings.

Three steps to go high vibe, feel better, and change your life.

1. Change your focus.   Drop the moaning, groaning, complaining, and so on.

Focus on being kind, grateful, compassionate, loving, peaceful, and so on – even for the things that aren’t so great. 

The idea is to let go of looking to be the victim.  Instead, embrace the reality in which you have the power to choose how you feel and thus can direct your reality.

2. State your intention.  Be clear about what you desire. 

Here is a simple transition step to get you on your way.  I learned this when I was first starting on my journey to high vibe and was going through a divorce. 

Even though _______________, I choose to be happy.

Even though _______________, I choose to be happy.

Etc.

Fill in the blank with your complaint.  You are telling the Universe that being happy is the intention.

3. Feel the high vibe feeling now. Focus on a past high vibe experience and feel it as if it is happening in this moment. 

Let’s continue with the theme of happiness. It could be as simple as licking an ice cream cone.  Focus on the feeling as you lick the ice cream.  Imagine how good it tastes.  Imagine your tongue stroking the cool yumminess on a hot day.  Imagine the giddy feeling in your chest.  Imagine yourself moaning with pleasure.

What you are doing is focusing on experiencing a better feeling. It doesn’t matter if it’s happening right now or not.  Feel it as if it is.

The more you practice these three steps, the better you will feel.  The better you feel, the clearer the insights you will get. Opportunities will appear to match these better feelings and insights.  Then, it’s up to you to take the action to grab onto these opportunities. 

What happened to the client who was stabbed in the back?

He has a clear intention, is happier and feels more love for the ones who betrayed him.  And since high vibe wins, his situation is improving in multiple areas of his life.  In addition, he recognizes the value of doing the inner consciousness clearing and is newly committed to doing it every day so that he can truly be high vibe. Yeah!  I see great things for his future.


Note:  While writing this, I got a new insight.  My dad says, “If it is to be, it’s up to me.”  I used to take this as “I have to do everything myself.” This is a low vibe way of looking at the saying.   What it does mean (in a high vibe reality) is that if I want something else, then I’m the one who needs to change my feelings.  Afterall, feelings come first. 

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